Fights? Fights? These two would have the how to agree when sitting on not a stationary narrow plank in a child jyotish for their whole life. The reason why most relationships fail is because most individuals focus only on one side of an argument and still expect the outcome to be a smooth, unwrinkled face.”
Romantic Tornado: Lovers are stunned and entertained by the romance formed between two Libras, as if they were living in a rom-com movie. Assume, by anticipating impressive courtesies, revealing words and such bulks of flowers that are sure to please any florist.
The Great Indecision No Exit: Appearances could deceive. What seems to be a simple meal ordering can take the heat of everyone like a movie directed in Hollywood. “No, leave it to you,” “No, I suggest you do it.” It is like a very civilised tennis game in which the players are so polite that no one uses the racquets.
Surface-Level Syndrome: Both enjoy recreations, and that may be the danger, as there are more complex or unpleasant feelings that are best left unaddressed. Their bond in terms of how deep they get could quite frankly be as shallow as a toddler’s pool in the middle of december.
Conflict Avoidance Championship: Most efficient is how quickly they clean under the carpet when it comes to the problem. Manners to the core! It may be best to go through all the pertinent places however embarrassing it ma seem.
The People-Pleaser Paradox: The sensation of wanting to please the other person means that their own needs are likely to be abandoned. Like two waiters each of who serves the other- very courteous, but barely effective.
The “Decisive Day” Challenge: Have a, “Today you will make all the decisions”, to every other day one member per week will make all decisions on any issues that arrises. Neither do you take charge on your boss’s head on Monday nor do I have my way on Tuesday. It is like tipping the odds of a roulette game in a way only you can know in a relationship.
Set a regular hour, let’s say a once a week session, when both of you have to talk about the hardest messiest feelings you have – no restraint exercised. Like jumping from an airplane and trying to not die at the landing, best probability of avoiding a conflict.
Pick a different position on a subject once a month for the reasons of argument even if there is no argument to be made. This is a ‘house MVP debate club’ for couples sans animosity, with lots of laughter only.
On each and every Sunday, do not focus on any other person, place or thing except yourself. And you know how a day at the spa is more so a day-off for the person, not the body. So is this selfish day-off for the relationship.
Put sticky notes with topics you find difficult to address in this envelope and each week draw a new one and discuss it. Truth or dare without the dare but played by grown-ups.
To observe a Libra-Libra combination is rg to watch two extreme tightrope dancers performing a stunning duet- it is enthralling, graceful and somewhat frightening for the spectators. They may not be averse sometimes perhaps to the point of indecision or at times slightly skimming the surface of some emotions, but their values of love, beauty as well as fairness remain intact. They just need a little practicing at the game of choices making and add a little earnestness and this is simply the perfect couple that would tell a real romantic tale. But don’t get it wrong, however, as banal as this may sound in a grand cosmic ballet, it is not important whether the movements are perfectly coordinated. It is more essential to have a ‘creation’ that is entirely yours simply not being synchronized. Thus, dearest Libras are you ready to take your cosmic choreographic pots in your hands and run to love but don’t take your time to think about who is to be in the leading position!